What is my expectation of a relationship? I suddenly come up with such a topic while I was in the middle of the shower.
26 Feb 2017 Sunday
After years of absence, the four fabulous women come back, bringing laughs and tears, happiness and sadness, betrayal and forgiveness, which definitely make the movie to be the most valuable to see. Carrie, Miranda, Charlotte and Samantha, although Samantha is 50, all keep the same lovely smiles, pretty faces and especially the friendship with each other. It’s impossible to express the meanings within the show but you can feel more with your heart.
Human are animals of significance,according to Xiong Peixun.Yes, I really agree.
Friendship, yes friendship is a very old word and more or less out, is something that can bring you back to life. Friends are people around you, and being jealous when you want to show your special happiness, angry when you blame someone in front of them, shouting with your mistakes when you can’t see it. Most importantly, they can do these things for years.
Last night,after tour of Te Mata Peak,Adong made an appointment with me that we are going to Church on Sunday morning.Yes,it's the first time to church both of us.I never entered a church before instead of just watching it in the movie.I just thought it is holy.
Love, I planed to put this word at the beginning, is such kind of things that you usually rank it first but not easy to get it or you feel desperate about it which enforce your desire of it. In the movie, Carrie and her friends told us some simple principles about love. First, never always stay at your point. We have our own image of love in our minds but you must share yours with some one you love and decide to spend your life together. If not, your image may give him or her great pressure to be afraid to embrace your honey moment. Second, try to forgive if he or she really is worth to be forgiven. No one is perfect. Mistakes are reasonable. But you must make the judgment yourselves. If someone asks you to give him a chance, meanwhile, he is seeking for a new one, it’s easy to make the decision. The last, never say never. Keep love in your hand, never give up. Some one may cheat you, twist you and make you really up set. However, you still have the opportunity if you believe in it.
By the way,where I lived sounds not so good for chinese guys.Because of "Fare on"【Pronounce from Chinese】,house owner believes in it.Actually,they have their faith.
Sex, definitely you can’t miss it when talking about the movie, is not everything but really some thing. Steve is a good guy, very impressive when he fall in love with Miranda in the TV series. Miranda is also a very kind woman, a little bit aggressive but having faith with love. But she didn’t know how important the sex is and let Steve sleep alone. Finally, Steve slipt. And Samantha, really changed a lot, gave up the love after the sushi Valentine’s Day. Actually, sex here is not only about sex, but something you sharing with your partner just like your vision of life.
Case is that, I met such a guy. This guy has a special attraction to me, some kind of poisionous aspect, that made me fell for him. He's a gentleman make no mistake. He's also a humorous guy and a very talented person. He might be a bit passive about lilve, but he is rather focused on his unfulfilled dream, which I believe he would one day become a very fabulous soul mate in life.
Refered to the Station Community Church,it is quite near from where we lieved,around 8 minutes walking.Opposite of it,there is another church called St Peter Chanel Catholic Church.Both open at 10 a.m. on Sunday morning.And we went there so early around 8:45.When we went to The Station Community Church,we met a lady in the front of church.We greeted with each other and when we said we wanted to enter the church.She was so happy to meet us and let us in.Then she introduced her husband to us.He is the minister of the church.Actually I heard it from Margaret ,a woman living quite near my sharehouse.
Girls, actually all the people, came to the world with dream of labels and love. That’s why the movie attracts so many eyes. It’s all about you and me even the situation and location differ dramatically. You can be easily moved!
Look， I‘m really sorry I woke you， and， well， I just wanted to tell you I was all right。
I actually don't know how to describe our relationship. I mean, we literally count as "friends":
The minister of the church is so wonderful and nice.He introduced the situation of the church and what usually did in the church.In front of church,there was a band which quite surprised me.And I didn't know what is the function of band.About 9.30 a.m.,people came in just on by one.People began to talk each other casualy including the minister.After a while,the minister came to me and asked me,"Do you want some coffee or tea.""No,thanks."I just said.Actually,I want to drink a cup of coffe.But maybe I am in a habit of "NO,thanks",so the words came out.By the way,I am the person that don't want to trouble others.
365bet开户，...We seldom talk if we are not hanging out together or something he needs to know from me.
At 10 o'clock,lot of people came in and some came with children.Just in front of us,I just saw a handsome and besutiful couple.And they have a cute ,beautiful daughter and handsome son.At the moment,I believe in the true essence of gene.Unfortunately,I didn't take a picture of them.But it really shocked me.
...We barely "date", and each time it was me who took the initiative and the control of everything.
After a while,the activity began.First of all,all people stand up and singed a song about christian.Then minister and other people gave a speech.I didn't know how to express it.So I just writed down someting interesting.First,at the begining of all,Margaret introduced Adong and me.Actually,I just told minister where we live and I didn't find a job in Hastings.So later he introduced us to Margaret before start.When Margaret introduced us to everyone,we are so amazing and remembered everyone smiled to us.Second,there was an activity called "Kids Konner"It was just like a lesson of preschool mainly for children.It showed children a phenomenon that oranges begin to sink through peeling the skin of orange.But I didn't know what it means mainly telling something about faith and love.Third,"The god is a door!"I am not sure about I said it truly.If you know it,please just giving a hand to me!Because of the significance of the "door",the minister got a door in the front of church.And people passed the door and got a cup of pink drink and a small piece of bread.Actually,I didn't know what it means.
...We do not know each other very deep like we think we do.
After all activities,people had a cup of coffee and began chatting casually.The minister just came in and said what are our fellings.People here is so nice.
...We simply just hang out, visit some shops and sightseeings, have meals together, then bid goodbye and go back home.
Because the minister knew that I didn't find a job in Hastings,he introduced me to Margaret and talked about it.Then Margaret wrote down my name and my number and told me that another WHV had the contact of job."Wow,she is so nice."Maybe at noon,I received a message from Miles who lived in the house of Margaret.
I don't need anyone to tell me that this guy is not that into me. I totally and comprehensively get this. It's quite obvious. We were like toys (or tools) of each other, so that we could spend time playing together, have some fun without engaging into a fixed relationship, which would cut the freedom of ourselves.
It is a wonderful experience.I just thought that I went to church for just one time,it is all right.But if I need to go to church all the sunday,I will feel boring.So maybe I dodn't have a fath.So this is what I mean in the front of my article.
I mean I like both of the companies。
Sometimes, I do desire a boyfriend. A real boyfriend. Not a boy friend. I have quite a lot of male friends and definately know not to cross the line and not to break the friendship. These friends give me many different meanings in my life and made me feel that I was not that unattractive or hateful.
But I just fell for this guy.
I am going to spend another 10 more years to fell in love with someone who's not going to love me back. I already tired of this silly thing and I regreted it for last few years. I thought this would be a bit difficult for me to actually accept someone, or let myself drown into another time-wasting fancy.
This guy is really amazing and know how to get the likes and loves from girls. He is not that kind of playboy, although he did smoke. He is not tall, but he has his fashion sense in styling. He knows a lot about various things and could make personal comments regarding each of them. I appreaciate him, from both personality and wisdom.
I know I looked foolish talking like that. As we all know, 2 people makes a relationship. If I want to know his real thoughts, I should probably call him ( yea, I got his phone number 3 years after I knew him... and it was done on yesterday) or ask him out for further investigation. In the end, I decided to zip it and close the file. I actually quite enjoy this kind of "friend", easy come easy go, no responsibility, no commitment, no future, so gone with the wind. Since I am too young and too naive, maybe too agressive and too eager for a relationship to fill the sparetime moment of my life in Shanghai. Or maybe I was just too lonely? I already know that I am going to be alone for the rest of my life. I really don't believe that there's one guy that would meet my expectation of a soul mate, and most important thing is that, I just can not trust anyone other than myself. Pathetic.
She thought a lot about her appearance， you know， and spent a lot of money on clothes。
A： What do you do with your friends？
B： We do things like shopping， watching movies， etc。 We hang out like twice a week。 When we hang out it is really， like， exciting。
（5）Actually /Basically/ absolutely/ definitely 各种副词
Actually I meant to notify you beforehand。
Basically， you decide what to do from moment to moment。
I absolutely believe in miracles， and believe that they are all around us， every day。
“They definitely want this to go away， ” he said。